Girls Play CSS too....

[FireDespot]

Im not sure where to put this or really what to say so here goes nothing:

Hello, Im a girl that so happens to play CSS and other games that are typically guy oriented. I enjoy shooting people in the face and getting shot as well. No I dont take the game way too seriously, I play mainly to blow off steam and hang out with cool, funny people.
But what isnt cool is the massive sized egos of some players. Those that enjoy picking on others from the safety of the internet and since I am female, I gain a different type of attention, unwanted atmost. Whether its behavior like sexual harassment OR bullying cause they THINK Im an underaged boy/gay male. But there is another type of harrasment that occurs.
The matter of sprays, the sexual sort: Lesbians, solo, anal.....pretty much female sprays, splattered all over the wall and we female gamers are supposed to just be okay with it and play on. And most of us do, myself included. But I enjoy spraying my own supply of PG-13 sprays of random hot guys and it is OF COURSE met with "OMG a fag is playing!", "Gay PORN, BAN THEM" and then when it is found Im a girl, I am told to, "Suck a cock", "Take the cock out of my mouth" and called a fat bitch, etc. Now yes I know its a man's game blah blah blah, but we female gamers exist as well and there ARE some of us that will spray a hot guy spray for our own enjoyment as guys like to oggle their own sprays. Yet when WE do, we are harrassed and told vulgar things/insulted til we leave the server.

So to the guys that think only YOUR sprays are allowed:

Get over it please, as if we want to see Tiffany and Sarah lick each other's holes. We female gamers think you can deal with a mere shirtless guy or in undies!

And to the admins of this server, yes there is a No Gay Spray rule on N/U, I am well aware of that, thus why none of my sprays contain penis', guys doing things to each other or any gay actions what-so-ever, yet on your servers, I get harrassed, called above insults and told I should be banned for gay sprays.....yet where is the gay factor? Only males bellowing foul when girls see foul things everyday in servers, yours included.
And if I get banned for having a hot guy in my spray, so be it. My sig is an example of my sprays, nothing showing, just a guy....

Thank you for reading,

[Humpleberry] FireDespot

[Wolfeh]

Personally, I could care less personally about the whole spray issue. =/

Server rules are server rules and should be followed like you said. Also, your sig is obviously not gay porn and you wouldn't be banned REGARDLESS of what "idiots" in the server are saying. Admins know to do their job right and not just do something because the majority of the server is telling them to do so.

I hate to sound harsh but all I can say is that you really have to get over insults and trash talk because it is part of the game. (when they are about the game) On the other hand Sexism and racism alike are not tolerated on the server. There is a difference between sexism and trash talking, a fine line. If an admin sees this they will take action since it is not tolerated on our servers.

Over all don't let shit get to you, that only fuels the fire if guys know what they say gets to you.
I could careless what people throw at me because I don't take shit from anyone. I think it's funny that you say "we female gamers" ahahaha. because I don't necessarily agree with the fact "we have to sit back and look at girls why cant we look at guys" thing. Ahaha. But that's just me.

I am just playing to rock faces have some laughs and get frags. Getting caught up with stuff like this just takes the fun out of it. I don't know what I am saying you can ignore this if you want. ahaha.


IN A NUTSHELL ---- If anyone is being sexist just let me or another admin know.

[enderless]

Wolfeh pretty much said it. Yes trash talk is part of the game, but sexism is not allowed on N|U servers. Alert an admin, hop in vent or shoot a pm on steam (shtlss07 is my steam and xfire btw). Take a demo/log their steamid as a last resort, but do what you need to do to help us help you. A little ragging is acceptable, but once the line is crossed or someone won't stop then the situation needs to be taken to the next level.

BTW there is nothing wrong with male sigs/sprays and you won't get banned for them. As for the nature of gay porn, you pretty much summed it up in your post: the gaming community is primarily male populace.

[IceBitch]

Me being a women in this gaming community for 5years i have seen many sprays of all kinds. if an admin cant tell the diff between what spray is gay and what is not then, tell another admin about whats going on. I have dealt and still dealing with many retarded little immature boys in the servers. be the bigger Women. tell them to fuck off. or Ice is going to ban them :P hehe. do what you have to do. but i am sorry i can not agree with what you posted. there is a fine line though about sexist shit. and i don't know a single admin that puts up with that shit. and if you know of any that do, tell me pasties Siosios Nat. any one of us and it will be taken care of. but as for people saying shit in game, take it with a grain of salt or fight back. don't let them get to you. that's all they want. just be like me and be a bitch back.
but your spray is fine in any of the servers. just don't put anything "gay" on it. and you will be safe.
-Mama Ice
I do wish the best of luck in the servers though

[badfish]

is a pic of ender and dot kissing considered a gay spray cuz they keep sending them to me......

........baddie

[IceBitch]

badifsh not here hun

[FireDespot]

Im not new to playing with boys or immature ones (have 3 older brothers, yuck).
And usually I can let it slide, insult them back etc but its difficult to do that constantly, with 2 or 3 on your back, especially with it increasing and on servers I enjoy playing on and frequent alot.

Plus my mic died so I cant fight back how I usually do, maybe gaining a laugh over their homophobia. Typing out insults takes so long......when I see double standards, I cant help but to say foul, even if its futile and against the male dominated community of CSS or other games. I tend to be outspoken. :-D

Thank you all for the advice and yes other admins are aware of this happening not only to me but other female players. And I shall start getting info of harrassers, if it comes to that.....


<3 Fire

[IceBitch]

you can always start playing on GunGame and Dust2 there is not a guy in there (expect the dumb noob that join) that will say shit to any women. i have made that clear to them. the might say sexual inputs but nothing that is over the line. your more then welcome to stat with me though. i will get your back any time. Plus i have a mic that works and trust me i am heard all the time. :) I am sorry that it has come down to a post like this to get people to see whats going on and having to defend your self and pic. that much i am. i hope to see you around though and finaly get to own your ass in game.

And i didn't say that you were new to this time of shit, just stating that i have been here long and seen a lot of it.
i too have a brothers and a shit load of male friends. i cant stand females. they annoy me to much. :) i played football in HS. on the guys team and Baseball too. i know how mean guys can be, but i can tackle just as hard. :)
Good luck sweety
-Mama Ice
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your spray is hot by the way.

[DoT]

This pisses me off... it really does
Why didnt you tell your hubby someone was messin with you?
They will get banned like that sexist pig Mr. T

You know I have your back 100% humple.
Just ask Nat and Arisu I DO NOT tolerate sexism in the closest form at ALL in zm nor any of the other servers.

But guys are gonna be guys. Im sure your independant and strong enough to just blow them off till you can get an admin.

Thanks,
.

[siosios]

ok now i dont have an issue with your sig but he does look like his back is arched just enough to take it up the rear so......j/k.

any admin that is in game should be stopping any sort of major harrassment minor shit doesnt count as thats the nature of it. you can message me with any info pertaining to idiots.

siosios

[Natalya]

Yea Humple I play a lot when ur on, just msg me if someone gives u crap for your spray. It's not illegal and no1 should complain about it in that way.

[Breaker]

add me to steam Humple try to get some admins in yah friends list so yah can alway's msg them if anything happens, and i personally got no problem at all when yah spray pics lik eyah got in yah sig..
as yah can see yah got a lot of ppl backing yah up so cheer up and smash the ppl down that are against yah ingame and if something happens again just msg 1 of us

a few day's ago i had the same problem with some guy's arrasing Arisu in chattalk and i punished them for that as well


It does sux that yah mic died.. hope yah can get it fix or can get a new one cause its way easier liek yah said to talk back to ppl.

Cyah ingame again

[ORGANDONOR]

If you see me in game or on xfire if you have it my name is fatall33t just tell me to come in and i will take care of the problem that your are have and i will solve it right there for you and do stop buy Gun game theres a lot of good guys in there

ORGANDONOR

[IceBitch]

Love you girl, fight the man :P

[FireDespot]

Wow, I wasnt really expecting so much support. I knew a few admins already but this is awesome. Thank you...


And I cant ever stop fighting the man....or men, lol...too much fun being outspoken...thanks again guys, love ya <3 :-D

And I got a loaner mic so now I can really fight back again......temporarily....http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f193/FireDespot/Smilies/YellowEvil.gif

[DoT]

Atta girl ;)

<3
Daddy Dot

[Breaker]

Wow, I wasnt really expecting so much support. I knew a few admins already but this is awesome. Thank you...


And I cant ever stop fighting the man....or men, lol...too much fun being outspoken...thanks again guys, love ya <3 :-D

And I got a loaner mic so now I can really fight back again......temporarily....http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f193/FireDespot/Smilies/YellowEvil.gif


go get them ;) i saw yah added me on steam ^^