deicide, i understand the frustration, got that not long ago myself.
playing with u and never doubt, but this will be a test of ur attitude also, and "gaming IQ" like u said. so... keep it in positive way man. game is game, dont be too extreme about it. give them time to work it out. meanwhile show your good intention, contribution, ..maybe a little attraction, too then, i don't think admins will have trouble of understanding or helping u out.
good luck bud, NEMESIS