Heres my advice. ive been thru something like this before. honestly if one you cant trust and one you cant stand. honestly...i would step away from both and put your best friend to a friends only status. when it comes down to it if you cant choose then dont remove yourself from the situation and look elsewhere. if you can bag 2 hotties then its not like you cant move on yourself to find someone you get along with more and that you can trust. i myself am 22 and im looking to settle down. but if i find a girl im gonna find onw who will be around till im 25. you should be looking for something like that. someone who is happy with just being with you to not expect more then companionship untill you are ready to take that big step.